Why I dislike(d) belts



I dislike belts. There. I said it. Belts have been for me those weird accessories that you keep in the back of your closet for emergency reasons, and use them only when you have a pair of amazing pants that are, unfortunately, a bit too large in the waist. This would have been the only exception where I would think about wearing this contraption, that is, until a week ago.

Don’t get me wrong, belts are awesome. They keep your pants on and there are a lot of people who look absolutely gorgeous wearing them- it’s just that I am not one of those people. Any pair of pants worn with a belt weirdly scrunches up at the top and looks downright awful on me, and it takes me about 10 minutes to pull the belt through the belt loops and find the most appropriate hole. I do believe that the idea of a “perfect belt hole” is a myth because there are always only two options for me: “so tight I cannot breathe” and “so loose that if I bend down, my pants will fall off”.

Unfortunately for me, black belts with huge silver buckles have been all over Instagram lately, and as I am crazy for that grunge-ish look, I took a leap of faith and got myself one. Do I like it? Absolutely. Does it make me want to wear more belts from now on? No way. If you look closely, I am not even wearing it properly, the belt loops on all my jeans are way too small for the huge buckles and my closet is 80% skinny jeans anyway.

This experience was truly enlightening, I must say, and it helped me learn two important things:

1.Never be afraid of trying something new, you may end up loving it (this one’s a deep one);

2.Not all belts look that bad;


Nu îmi plac curelele. Gata. Am zis-o. Curelele au fost pentru mine acele obiecte ciudate pe care le ascunzi prin spatele dulapului și le folosești doar când ai o pereche foarte faină de pantaloni, dar puțin prea mare, din păcate. Până acum o săptămână, ăsta ar fi fost singurul context în care m-aș fi putut vedea purtând așa ceva.

Nu vreau să fiu înțeleasă greșit, curerele sunt super. Îți țin pantalonii și sunt foarte multe persoane care arată absolut extraordinar purtându-le, doar că eu pur și simplu nu sunt una dintre ele. Orice pereche de pantaloni pe care o port cu o curea se strânge în partea de sus și arată înfiorător, iar pe lângă asta îmi ia vreo 10 minute să trec minunatul accesoriu prin toate găicile și încă vreo 10 să găsesc o gaură potrivită. Țin totuși să cred că ideea de gaură potrivită la curea e doar un mit, pentru că eu nu am decât opțiunile de “prea strâns, mă sufoc” și “dacă mă aplec, îmi cad pantalonii de pe mine”.

Din păcate, Instagramul e plin zilele astea de curele negre cu catarame imense care arată splendid, și cum sunt înnebunită după tot ce are un aer așa mai grunge, mi-am călcat pe inimă și mi-am luat și eu una. Îmi place cum arată? 100%. Mă face să vreau să port curele mai des? Nup. No way. Dacă vă uitați mai atent, nici măcar nu o port ca o curea, cataramele fiind prea mari să treacă prin găici și garderoba mea fiind compusă aproape exclusiv din blugi skinny.

Concluziile pe care le trag de aici sunt:

1.Să nu îți fie frică să încerci ceva nou, s-ar putea să îți placă (asta așa, mai deep);

2.Nu toate curelele arată chiar așa nașpa;



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Top: Bershka

Jeans: Bershka

Creepers: Newchic.com

Cardigan: Stradivarius

Belt: Gamiss.com

Rings: H&M

32 Responses

  1. For a person who dislikes belts, you wore this look like a real badass. Totally love it! Great post!

  2. Lol loving the humorous tone of this post babe! You totally rocked the belt in this outfit and I wouldn’t have even noticed that it wasn’t “worn properly” because it looks like it works really well! I’m the opposite in that I love belts but have a hard time finding ones that fit well at the waist.

    Rina Samantha

    1. So happy you liked it, Rina! Hope you will find lots and lots of gorgeous, well-fitting belts this year hehe xx

    1. Glad to know I’m not alone, and indeed the style of this belt is so unique and gorgeous! Thank you Amy xx

  3. Haha I love the realization that you came to with belts and that you dig them (kinda now)! I used to have the same issue with them scrunching up so I’m glad you found a way and a style of belt you like!

    Danielle | FollowMyGut.com <3

    1. Thank you, Danielle! I too am super happy that trying out something new resulted in me realizing how wonderful belts can be <3

  4. I have a hard time with belts as well. I like them on other people but they never feel or look quite right on me. But you’re right, they’re all over Instagram lately. It’s hard to not want to get one! Yours looks fabulous on you!

    1. Thank you, Marta! It really is, I am super glad I tried it! Who knows, maybe you too will become a fan once you find the perfect belt xx

    1. Haha, I must have been in the minority then! They’re wonderful, now I can see why they’re so adored xx

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